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366 Birthday Profiles: Your Cosmic Yearbook

“It is never too late to be what you might have been.”

George Eliot

In the pages that follow you will find a birthday profile for every day of the year. Remember, this profile represents your potential. It is not written in stone. I’ll risk repeating myself, as this is too important: You are born with free will and the choice is always yours about what you decide to do with your one precious life. Hopefully, what you read about the unique power of the day on which you were born will resonate strongly with you, and inspire you to believe in yourself and live your dreams.

If what you read doesn’t completely resonate, this doesn’t mean you are born on the wrong day or the profile is flawed. It simply means you are forging a new path, and there can be nothing more exciting than that. Perhaps what you read in your profile will still offer you food for thought or a different perspective. There are infinite possibilities and many different paths to take in life. And every path you take, even if it is a winding one that doesn’t lead to any destination in particular, will teach you something valuable that you need in your search for the bigger picture of your life.

It is not so much the arrival at a destination, but the journey of life itself—and what you learned about yourself during those times you felt lost—that ultimately gives your life its meaning. As long as you are learning and living each day of your life to the full, rest assured you are already living a meaningful life.

Birthstones

Birthstones are gemstones that represent each month of the year. Each stone is said to have a unique energy, meaning and significance. It is widely believed that wearing the birthstone of the month on which you were born can attract good fortune your way. You may want to research the meaning of your birthstone and meditate on, wear or use it in your daily life. But don’t feel you can’t draw on the healing energies of all the other birthstones, too. A birthstone may be aligned to a certain month, but birthstones and the magic they can bring are for everyone regardless of the month they are born.

1 1. January: Garnet (luck)

2 2. February: Amethyst (wisdom)

3 3. March: Aquamarine (peace)

4 4. April: Diamond or quartz (courage)

5 5. May: Emerald (hope)

6 6. June: Pearl (love)

7 7. July: Ruby (vitality)

8 8. August: Peridot (beauty)

9 9. September: Sapphire (truth)

10 10. October: Opal or tourmaline (healing)

11 11. November: Topaz or Citrine (happiness)

12 12. December: Tanzanite or Turquoise (intuition)

These Are the Days of Your Life

And once you’ve reflected on your profile, and those of people you know or have yet to get to know, don’t allow yourself to waste the potential of any day in your life ever again. Every morning be sure to meditate on the birthday profile for the day ahead. Let the life wisdom there help you tap into the secret potential and power of that day and attract good fortune your way so that you can choose to make every day of the year, and of your life, a very special day.

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1 JANUARY

The Birthday of Self-improvement

“When one door closes, another always opens for me”

The life lesson: is to believe you are good enough and that making mistakes isn’t a crime.

The way forward: is to learn that nothing is a failure if you learn and grow from it.

Luck maker: Let go of expectations.

Bursting with enthusiasm, people born on January 1 are instinctive and idealistic trailblazers. They value the lessons they have learned from their past and use this to plan ahead for a better future. Once they settle on a goal, their drive, determination and organizational skills typically ensure success. But when things don’t go according to their best-laid plans, they can become impatient, oversensitive and insecure. They need to break through their fear of the unexpected and recognize that their way isn’t always the best or only way.

These people are born experts, often rising to leadership roles where their opinions and skills are highly valued. There is a voice inside them urging them to work harder and longer, and to always do better. This quality makes them big achievers, but they can get so caught up in their self-improvement that they lose their sense of humor and the bigger picture along the way. They thrive when self-employed, but are also drawn to careers in teaching, business, the law, finance and education, healthcare, programming, gaming, personal development or any work that allows them to rise to the top and engage and enlighten others through specialization. Burnout is one of their biggest health risks and, because they are so self-critical, they can suffer from bouts of depression. Listening to their intuition rather than their head will help them find inner peace. Breathing in a few drops of lavender essential oil on a handkerchief can ease stress. For self-care, rise and shine at the same time each day. Avoid lying in or burning the midnight oil. Successful people retire and rise early.

January 1-born are often kind-hearted and trusting, but can become controlling of others. They need plenty of adventure and intellectual stimulation in their love relationships, otherwise they will get bored. Under the age of 40 they run the risk of becoming workaholics and marginalizing the importance of their personal growth, but fortunately this destructive trend diminishes the older they get. Once they figure out that resilience, open-mindedness and a sprinkling of laughter mixed with optimism are just as important for success as hard work, their destiny is to lead and inspire others to new heights with their dedicated sense of purpose.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: The Devil, 1, 2, Saturday, Sunday, blue, orange

Born today: J. D. Salinger (novelist); Christine Lagarde (politician); Chai Jing (broadcaster)

Potential: Dedicated, inspirational

Dark side: Manipulative, impatient

2 JANUARY

The Birthday of the Intuitive Leader

“I see clearly what others miss”

The life lesson: is to understand that being different from everyone else isn’t a weakness.

The way forward: is to value your uniqueness as a strength.

Luck maker: Focus on your strengths, and see your weaknesses as opportunities to learn and grow.

The motivated and dedicated but also intuitive and highly observant people born on January 2 have a remarkable ability to tune into their surroundings and the feelings of others. Their sensitivity can work against them, making them feel isolated and different rather than unique and natural. But once they can learn to value their intuition, January 2 people can unlock incredible creativity in themselves and others.

Those born on January 2 are natural artists, teachers and healers, but can also thrive in public relations, management, personal development, life-coaching, counseling, photography, art, writing, social media and any career that offers them an opportunity to observe themselves, others or the world in a creative way. Although they are by nature serious and reserved, when their self-confidence is high their intuition works at its best and is the force that helps them excel in any chosen career. Self-critical perfectionists, they can sometimes be their own worst critic and enemy. January 2-born need to ensure they take regular time out to unwind and relax with their loved ones, friends or pets. Carrying a small rose-quartz crystal around with them helps them to attract the energy of self-love. For self-care, every morning on waking immediately think of three things in your life to be grateful for.

The potential for rising to the top of their chosen field is there, but if self-belief is lacking, they will waste their talents with self-doubt and not maximize this potential. The same applies to their relationships. Their giving nature can be taken advantage of. Sometimes, their acute sensitivity makes them unpredictable and moody and it is hard for them to know which feelings belong to them and which belong to others. There is a powerful shift toward setting boundaries and personal growth before the age of 50, and after that they really come into their own. Once they love themselves enough, and realize that thinking is not the same as doing, their destiny is to confidently express their uniqueness and, by so doing, encourage others to do the same.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: The High Priestess, 2, 3, Saturday, Monday, blue, silver

Born today: Isaac Asimov (sci-fi writer); Daisaku Ikeda (Buddhist leader); Christy Turlington (model)

Potential: Intuitive, dedicated

Dark side: Indecisive, moody

3 JANUARY

The Birthday of Determination

“The darkness comes before the dawn; I will shine through”

The life lesson: is to avoid obsessiveness and narrow-mindedness.

The way forward: is to experiment with different approaches and understand that failure can sometimes teach you more than success.

Luck maker: The only person to compare yourself with is the person you were yesterday.

Failure is never an option for the appealing and extremely determined people born on January 3. They are at their most inventive when challenged and, even if it looks like they have failed, they will learn and grow from it and stage a comeback. Their admirable persistence means that they can overcome incredible odds. Sometimes, however, their stubbornness can make them appear intolerant. January 3 people can impose unbearable standards, not just on themselves but also on others, and when pushed into a corner they can resort to using their charm to help them get what they want in a manipulative way.

Born innovators, idealists and self-starters, they can achieve outstanding success in self-employment and business, but they can also excel in charity, the law, prison, the police, charity and humanitarian work, as well as politics, education, environmentalism, digital technology, and as creatives, authors, artists, filmmakers and social-media influencers. Prone to personal vanity, any concerns about appearance should ideally be managed not by cosmetic shortcuts but by a healthy diet and lifestyle, and a youthful and optimistic approach to life. They need to constantly remind themselves that appearance matters but inner beauty matters more. For self-care, close your eyes and tune into your intuition for a few minutes each day. Reflecting quietly on what your body, mind and, most importantly, your heart are trying to tell you can help you make better decisions.

In relationships January 3-born easily attract admirers and are loyal and trusted companions, but their tendency to constantly seek attention can become draining for the people in their life. However, when they let go of the need to control and allow others to breathe around them, their relationships can be deeply comforting and fulfilling. Around the age of 40 they typically discover that connecting with their intuition rather than seeking identity and attention from others, causes or projects is the path to true fulfillment, and their life transforms. Once they have mastered this “inside-out” approach to life, their destiny is to share their powerful creativity and make the impossible seem possible.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: The Empress, 3, 4, Saturday, Thursday, purple, gray

Born today: J. R. R. Tolkien (fantasy author); Sergio Leone (film director); Greta Thunberg (climate-change activist)

Potential: Charming, inventive

Dark side: Vain, stubborn

4 JANUARY

The Birthday of the Eclectic

“I am here to learn”

The life lesson: is that you don’t feel understood.

The way forward: is to put yourself in the other person’s shoes, and see their perspective before explaining your own.

Luck maker: Listen as much as you speak.

January 4-born are drawn to the eclectic. They gather, sort and then select only the best, and use this sorting approach to solve problems in all aspects of their lives. Their impressive list of contacts and numerous projects all on the go reflect their unlimited powers of imagination. This erratic approach may seem chaotic, but there is always method in their madness. By learning all that can be learned from a variety of sources, they often emerge triumphant with an encyclopedic knowledge of life that can help them solve almost any complication or cope with any challenge they encounter.

They need careers that give them variety, but also allow them to be creative and spontaneous, such as in the media or travel. The unlimited possibility of careers online suits them perfectly. Born investigators, they can also make inspiring educators, entrepreneurs, web designers, publicists, lawyers, writers, detectives, inventors, scientists, artists, technology experts, designers, influencers, activists and journalists. A brain-boosting diet rich in green leafy vegetables, oily fish, berries, nuts and seeds is recommended for the hungry minds born on this day. Regular meditation is also beneficial. For self-care, before going to bed compile a “to-do” list of what you hope to achieve the next day. The following day enjoy the satisfaction of ticking off all those items on the list.

Any interaction with these innovative and meticulous people has to have a point, otherwise they quickly lose interest. Their inability to indulge in chitchat and occasional bouts of intolerance can work against them in their personal and professional lives but, more often than not, their bluntness and conviction are welcomed as a breath of fresh air. Like a fine wine, these people become more successful with age and their potential for success is most likely to emerge after the age of 30 and beyond. The same applies to their relationships. Deep down they are caring, but it can take a while for them to find a partner who can keep up with them. Their destiny is to gather as much knowledge as they can and then to present that knowledge in an authoritative way that both informs and inspires others.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: The Emperor, 4, 5, Saturday, Sunday, blue, brown

Born today: Isaac Newton (physicist); Jacob Grimm (folklorist); Tina Knowles (fashion designer)

Potential: Independent, imaginative

Dark side: Aloof, chaotic

5 JANUARY

The Birthday of Resilience

“Self-knowledge is the beginning of my wisdom”

The life lesson: is to understand that for your enthusiasm to be effective, it also needs to be realistic.

The way forward: is to motivate others without overly raising expectations or making them feel cornered or controlled.

Luck maker: Sometimes less really is more.

January 5-born are resilient, glass-half-full individuals, but they can also be extremely practical. They recover well from setbacks, intuitively understanding that learning from the past and any mistakes made along the way is all part of life’s journey. They are often wise beyond their years and make commanding advisors, guides and leaders, truly coming into their own during times of crisis. Their buoyant approach to life wins them many admirers but, taken to extremes, it can also make them unrealistically confident, bordering on arrogant.

Born mediators, they thrive in careers that allow them to be a communicator, networker, advisor, politician, motivational speaker or whenever a positive spin needs to be put on things. Advertising, politics, publicity, social services, architecture, marketing and the law can appeal, as do careers in teaching, medicine, sports, counseling, entertainment, the performing arts, science and social media. Regular time out to switch off, relax or simply have fun is essential for the charismatic and often in-demand people born on this day. They may think it is a waste of time, but it will help them come back recharged, re-invigorated and with new perspectives. Wearing orange or red can help boost their energy. For self-care, every morning ask yourself—as Steve Jobs famously did—if today was the last day of your life would you want to do what you are about to do today. If the answer is “no” for too many days in a row, it’s time to make changes.

Love, for these people, starts in the head and they rate intelligence highly in others. This can make them appear emotionally distant at times but, more often than not, this hides a deeply sensitive nature that is simply afraid to give of itself unconditionally. In their mid-forties there is a movement toward greater responsibility and also toward greater sensitivity, which grows stronger with age. Once they learn to listen to both their inner wisdom and the viewpoints of others, and focus their considerable talents on getting organized and creating a plan to help them achieve their goals, their destiny is to bring the best out in people and be the inspirationally self-reliant rock people instinctively turn to in a crisis.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: The Hierophant, 5, 6, Saturday, Wednesday, gray, green

Born today: Umberto Eco (author); Hayao Miyazaki (filmmaker); Diane Keaton (actor)

Potential: Inspirational, resilient

Dark side: Unrealistic, arrogant

6 JANUARY

The Birthday of the Philosopher

“I can see what truly matters”

The life lesson: is to avoid allowing preoccupation with work to take over your life.

The way forward: is to find a balance between work and your personal life, and focus on what really matters.

Luck maker: Attract new opportunities by doing things differently, talking to people you normally wouldn’t.

People born on January 6 always look beneath the surface for deeper meaning. They try to see goodness in others, but this can come across as child-like or gullible at times and their intelligence can be underestimated. Although they are typically mild-mannered, they can also be ambitious and hard-working, perfectionist at times, tending eventually to get what they want in life. There is a danger of them rejecting alternative viewpoints and being labeled as stubborn.

Work or study is often their savior because it channels their creative energies and helps them discover what their goals and values are. They are born visionaries and may be drawn to spirituality, therapy and personal development. They also make great programmers, gamers, engineers, architects, artists, designers, journalists, writers, investigators and filmmakers, or may decide to go it alone and set up their own business. They are prone to stress and shallow breathing because of their perfectionist tendencies, so deep-breathing techniques can help ease tension. Inhale deeply through the nose from the belly rather than the lungs and let the lungs fill completely with air. Then push all the air out of the lungs through the mouth. Inhaling and exhaling deeply five times every morning is recommended. For self-care, “unplug” from your phone for at least one hour a day, preferably first thing in the morning. Use that hour to focus on who you are rather than what you do.

There is a tender side to those born on this day that can get easily hurt and they may respond with rebellion when people don’t take them seriously. After the age of 45 they often learn that, although cathartic, rebellion can never be the whole answer. These people can sometimes be self-sacrificing in relationships and more in love with the idea of love than the person themselves. But once they learn the importance of give and take in their relationships and in life, stop spoiling themselves with choice, and make a decision about what they should devote their life to, their destiny is to help others deal with their own fears and prove that there can be light at the end of every tunnel.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: The Chariot, 6, 7, Saturday, Friday, black, pink

Born today: Kahlil Gibran (poet); Eddie Redmayne (actor); Mother Teresa (saint)

Potential: Visionary, insightful

Dark side: Gullible, stubborn

7 JANUARY

The Birthday of the Practical Dreamer

“I sense true magic in the ordinary”

The life lesson: is to stop worrying about what other people think.

The way forward: is to understand that what others think is solely their own concern.

Luck maker: Seek out the company of people who lift you up rather than drag you down.

Although January 7-born can appear accessible and appealing, they are drawn to the unfamiliar. They have a sense of responsibility but dream of living unconventionally. Unique in their ability to be both logical and intuitive, they are artists with a logical approach or scientists with intuition. They can sense the moods of others and often absorb negativity from others. These people find it hard to switch off from the suffering and injustices of the world, and humanitarian, charity or volunteer work appeal. They don’t believe in half-measures and will always push themselves to the limit, giving any project or goal they set their mind on everything they have got.

Born planners, they make great business leaders, educators, writers, architects, athletes, innovators and artists, excelling both individually and when working in a team. They have organizational skills and can do well as programmers, producers, researchers, team leaders and managers, and their caring nature may draw them to work as counselors, healers, therapists, doctors, social workers or vets. Stress and fatigue can be a big problem for people born on this day, so ensuring they have a good night’s sleep, get enough energy-boosting nutrients such as iron in their diet, and enjoy plenty of fresh air and exercise is essential. Unusual forms of calming exercise such as tai chi may appeal. For self-care, when you get up in the morning, set the right confident tone for the rest of your day by stretching as tall as you can and letting out a battle cry.

Although often surrounded by admirers, those born on this day are dreamers by nature and have a tendency to drift off into a world of their own, which can make them feel lonely, isolated and cut off from everything and everyone around them, even if they are in a fulfilling relationship. Their sense of connection with the natural world and an extraordinary imagination are a refuge for them. Fascination with the mystical, with unexplained phenomena, is common, especially after the age of 45, although fear of being criticized or thought “weird” may prevent them from pursuing their mystical inclinations. It is extremely important for January 7-born to develop resilience and self-confidence, and to accept that the opinions of others, although valuable, are not final. Once they have faith in themselves, their destiny is to lead the way by healing differences, crossing boundaries and uniting opposites.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: The Chariot, 7, 8, Saturday, Monday, gray, blue

Born today: Lewis Hamilton (Formula 1 driver); Charles Addams (cartoonist); Gerald Durrell (naturalist writer)

Potential: Intuitive, original

Dark side: Isolated, insecure

8 JANUARY

The Birthday of Dynamic Strength

“I rise above the odds”

The life lesson: is coping with imposter syndrome.

The way forward: is to understand that feeling out of your depth is not a negative thing but a sign you are evolving.

Luck maker: Progress is only made outside your comfort zone.

January 8-born have stunning potential to rise and shine above all obstacles and make their mark on the world. They are ambitious and motivated, and expect to be acknowledged by others, who typically come away impressed. Driven, hard-working, bold and passionate with visionary flair, they have the potential within them to achieve almost everything they want. The problem is that despite their explosive confidence, they have hidden insecurities that can manifest in irrational impatience, arrogance and intolerance.

Born achievers, they are likely to rise to the top in whatever career they choose, whether that be art, entertainment, science, medicine, healthcare, business, humanitarian work or anything else. They make great designers, developers and teachers, and may also be drawn to the world of politics, medicine, philanthropy and spiritual and personal growth. Because of their determined nature, they can sometimes have a tendency to overdo everything, which can impact their wellbeing. They need to avoid becoming too obsessive and serious by making sure they allow plenty of fun and laughter into their lives. Watching their posture is important, especially if they spend a lot of time in front of a computer. For self-care, spend a few moments each morning chanting the word joy over and over again to help draw positive things into your life through the power of sound.

These people are wonderful communicators and possess great charm and sensitivity, with an ability to put not just loved ones but anyone at ease. Although they are naturally intuitive, it is important that they do not let practicality and worldly ambition, and a desire to control others, obscure this talent, as it will serve them well in all areas of life, in particular their close personal relationships. Obsession with career and making their mark on the world can overshadow their relationships. After their early forties their intuition and emotional sensitivity steadily increase and grow more powerful. If they can stay positive and develop tolerance and humility in their relationships with others, there is nothing to hold back people born on this day. Their destiny is to shine—and shine they will, in the process inspiring others to shine alongside them.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, day, colors: Strength, 8, 9, Saturday, black, red

Born today: Elvis Presley and Shirley Bassey (singers); Stephen Hawking (physicist); Jack Andraka (inventor)

Potential: Brave, commanding

Dark side: Arrogant, impatient

9 JANUARY

The Birthday of the Striver

“I can break through barriers”

The life lesson: is not to use other people as stepping stones to success.

The way forward: is always to treat others with honesty and respect.

Luck maker: Have as few enemies as possible.

January 9-born tend to be fast-acting, thinking and feeling. Bursting with energy, ambitious and dedicated, they want to rise to the top and will do whatever it takes to get there, even if that means occasionally bending the rules. They demand only the best for themselves and others, and detest mediocrity. They place great value on initiative and their personal freedom, and often prefer to work or forge ahead alone rather than in a group. These people are not afraid of challenge and can bounce back from any setback, but they have a tendency to be ruthless and prone to outbursts of anger, making enemies as they go.

Born experimenters, they need careers that offer them variety, progress, freedom, independence and excitement. There may be quite a few career changes along the way. Marketing, advertising, politics, gaming, the media, computer programming, engineering, real estate, travel guide, journalism or any job that offers them plenty of variety, travel and challenge appeals to them. So focused are January 9 people on striving that they rarely take time to savor their achievements or even the present moment; they find it particularly hard to relax or switch off. It is of great importance for them to find time to properly unwind and take themselves less seriously. For self-care, spend 5 to 10 minutes a day sitting quietly with your phone on silent and doing nothing in particular but simply observing the present moment. If your thoughts wander to the past or future, or to your to-do list, gently bring them back to the joyful power of now.

These people are passionate lovers and believe in the idea of having a soul mate. Family is everything to them and they will place the material and financial needs of their loved ones above everything else. Sometimes, though, they neglect to give enough of themselves emotionally. Typically, from their mid-forties onward—sometimes sooner—their sensitivity toward others and their inner life become more prominent. If they can learn to strive as hard to maintain inner balance as they strive to attain success, there is nothing to stop them enjoying the liberating benefits of a purposeful professional life and happy personal life. Their destiny is to show others that going the extra mile and always doing your best really can make a difference and help make the world a better place.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: The Hermit, 1, 9, Saturday, Tuesday, gray, red

Born today: Kate Middleton (royal family member); Richard Nixon (US president); Simone de Beauvoir (philosopher)

Potential: Ambitious, dedicated

Dark side: Ruthless, devious

10 JANUARY

The Birthday of the Realist

“I know the best way forward”

The life lesson: is to take the feelings of others into consideration.

The way forward: is to understand that the truth can be presented in both a realistic and a positive way.

Luck maker: The more you make others feel good about themselves, the better they feel about you.

People born on January 10 are a force of nature. Individualistic and curious, they tend to speak their mind without subtlety or compromise, and although this can be shocking at times, they are highly valued for their honesty and for their realistic assessments of things. During times of uncertainty people seek them out for their wisdom, which never fails to surprise them. They are also never afraid to support unpopular viewpoints and to champion the underdog. On the downside, their inability to dress up the truth can upset people around them, stopping them advancing as fast in life as more diplomatic peers.

With their ability to see clearly, adapt to change and solve puzzles, these people are born troubleshooters in any career they choose to dedicate their considerable talents to. Bold business ideas are more likely to appeal to them than specialist ideas, and financial return is important. Computer programming, engineering, medicine, accountancy, banking, finance, the law, advertising and management all appeal. Their unconventional flair and willingness to take risks may lead them into entertainment, sport entrepreneurship or even to the unknown—these people are highly likely to volunteer for space travel. They need exciting outlets for both their mental and physical energy. For self-care, before you talk to, write, text or email someone today, pause for a few moments to consider the impact of your words on the person you are addressing.

In relationships these people can be jealous and controlling, but there is softness beneath their closed-book persona. Likewise, they can appear grumpy and lacking in empathy, but they are not negative or unhappy, just truth-tellers. It isn’t until they hit their forties and beyond that they become more empathetic toward those less able to cope with change and the ups and downs of life. Once they begin to understand that not everyone is as clear-sighted as they are, and that a gentler approach can help them achieve their objectives more effectively, people born on this day can earn the loyalty of others and make a lasting impact on the world. Their destiny is to bring both themselves and others closer to the truth, with their revealing assessment of people and situations.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: Wheel of Fortune, 1, 2, Saturday, Sunday, brown, orange

Born today: Rod Stewart (singer); George Foreman (boxer); Pat Benatar (singer)

Potential: Honest, original

Dark side: Insensitive, negative

11 JANUARY

The Birthday of the Expert Assessor

“I fight injustice and right wrongs”

The life lesson: is feeling powerless to change things.

The way forward: is to understand that you can only change the things you can and, when you can’t, you must learn to let go.

Luck maker: Sometimes you need to give others the benefit of the doubt.

January 11-born are insightful and intelligent. They have a natural talent for assessing every situation and person they encounter. They see right to the heart of people and situations, judging them according to their own very high standards. When their formidable powers of evaluation are combined with their discernment and insight, they become outstanding decision makers. Underlying their talent for assessment is a strong sense of justice. They feel compelled to do the right thing in life and to pass judgment, but sometimes this can lean toward critical and controlling behavior and the belief that their word really is the law.

Born helpers, they are drawn to careers where they can use their sharp mind to fight injustice and assist others. Education, journalism, vlogging, campaigning, lobbying, business, counseling, psychology, social work, politics, the law, the police, the military or even the clergy can appeal, as can therapy, music and the arts. These people need to avoid compassion overload by caring for others or fighting for their rights at the expense of their own physical and emotional needs. Self-care is a priority. Surrounding themselves with the color silver can bring inner peace. For self-care, every time a voice in your head tells you that you are not doing enough or not doing things correctly, listen to a really upbeat song and hum along or dance to it.

Learning to pronounce their opinions less forcibly and understanding that everybody has a right to a viewpoint empowers both the personal and professional life of those born on this day. They are loyal companions, but it can take an age for them to trust someone enough to really open up to them. Around the age of 40, often sooner, their emotional sensitivity grows stronger and they start to develop a more powerful inner life and greater self-confidence. They have high standards for others but also for themselves, and, because they have the courage and determination to live up to these standards, others will seek them out for advice when they learn to be a little less inflexible. Their destiny is not only to fight injustice but also to help others beat the odds and turn their dreams into reality.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: Justice, 2, 3, Saturday, Monday, black, white

Born today: Alexander Hamilton (statesman); William James (psychologist); Mary J. Blige (singer)

Potential: Fair, compassionate

Dark side: Controlling, perfectionist

12 JANUARY

The Birthday of Single-mindedness

“The work I do makes a difference, it is my calling”

The life lesson: is to stop feeling you need to prove yourself to others.

The way forward: is to place more emphasis on who you are than on what you do.

Luck maker: Spend more time listening and networking.

January 12-born are utterly unique in that they somehow manage to be both confident and elusive, occasionally at the same time. Either way, they don’t do anything half-heartedly. Once they have settled on a goal, they pursue it with single-minded dedication. Whatever their calling in life, whether it be raising a family, running a newspaper or campaigning for a cause, it becomes their single purpose. They are forever on the lookout for opportunities that can help them achieve their goals, and their sharp wit and uncanny good fortune often mark them out as success stories.

Work is everything and they run the risk of losing themselves to it, so choosing their career wisely is a big deal. Born winners, those born on this day are likely to succeed in any career, but their biggest struggle is choosing what career to pursue. Independent-minded, they can work in teams, often excelling in business, entrepreneurship, sales, marketing, politics, sports, journalism, negotiation, the media and all forms of art. January 12-born have high energy levels, but their intense focus can mean they neglect the most important thing in their life: their health. Self-care and regular exercise are essential, and they would also benefit from meditation to encourage self-awareness. For self-care, every morning when you wake up, reflect for a few moments on this question: If you had one year to live, what would your priorities be?

These people often put their emotional life on hold in pursuit of their goals in life. Sometimes they can be so driven that they lose touch not only with loved ones but also with themselves. They are quirky, attention-seeking and critical of others, and being ignored plunges them into a low mood. Carving out a personal life separate from work helps them get their sense of self-worth from within rather than externally. Typically, from around the age of 39 (though hopefully sooner), they place more emphasis on reflecting on what truly matters and inner growth, and this is the key to their happiness. Once they know how to balance their work and their personal life, their destiny is to dedicate themselves to a worthy cause or purpose.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: The Hanged Man, 3, 4, Saturday, Thursday, black, purple

Born today: Jack London (author); Jeff Bezos (entrepreneur); Christiane Amanpour (journalist)

Potential: Dedicated, inspirational

Dark side: Workaholic, attention-seeking

13 JANUARY

The Birthday of Progression

“I can and will reach my potential”

The life lesson: is not feeling frustrated when others don’t live up to expectations.

The way forward: is to accept others for who they are right now and not for who they could be.

Luck maker: Focus on what you can change about yourself, not what you can change about others.

People born on January 13 rarely pause. Self-improvement, often combined with social or global improvement, is their focus. They are always moving forward, whatever their circumstances. Their ability to adapt to change and overcome obstacles, making even the most difficult tasks seem easy, and keep their cool when all around are losing theirs, gives them a natural charisma. When setbacks occur, they pick themselves up, learn from mistakes and do all it takes to reach their goals—and reach them they will.

People born on this day particularly enjoy initiating new projects and ideas, and they work steadily and in a disciplined way until they have attained what they desire. Born advisors, their calm intelligence suits them to many careers, but they can excel in acting, education, medicine, the military, emergency services, personal relations, counseling, personal transformation, life-coaching, writing and social and humanitarian reform. Instinctively understanding that a healthy body is a healthy mind, these people prioritize self-care. There is a danger of becoming too obsessive about their health. Moderation is important. Spending more time in nature will help keep them balanced and grounded. For self-care, every evening set aside a minimum of ten minutes to read a good book, preferably hard copy rather than digital.

These charming people attract admirers, but they want to admire their loved ones in return and this can put intense pressure on their close relationships. They progress faster if they can understand that not everyone has the same drive or need for achievement as they have, and that sometimes the price for always giving 100 percent means they have to stand alone. Of course, they feel disappointment and disillusion at times but, typically after the age of 38 and more often than not sooner, they understand that feelings can help them learn and grow as much as thoughts and logic can. Their destiny is to inspire others to move out of their comfort zone, help resolve disagreements and, in the process, make the world a more harmonious place.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: Death, 4, 5, Saturday, Sunday, black, green

Born today: George Gurdjieff (philosopher); Ruth Wilson, Patrick Dempsey, Liam Hemsworth and Orlando Bloom (actors); Shonda Rhimes (producer)

Potential: Charismatic, high-achieving

Dark side: Bossy, unemotional

14 JANUARY

The Birthday of Conviction

“I see how the dots connect to create the bigger picture”

The life lesson: is to establish real emotional connection with others.

The way forward: is to apply the same level of commitment to your relationships as you do to your work.

Luck maker: Make sure there is a balance between giving and taking in your relationships.

January 14-born are a unique combination of discipline and instinct. They can take in vast amounts of information, weigh it all up, see the vision connecting everything and then work steadily toward their end goals. They are inquisitive and shrewd judges of people and situations. Their panoramic view and strong sense of right and wrong, which they present with absolute conviction, makes them sought-after peacemakers. Once settled on a course of action, they rarely lose sight of the end goal. Even if that means they alone must stubbornly see things through to completion.

Born observers, these people are drawn to work that utilizes their powers of moderation and curiosity or observation. Writing, design, art, photography, social media, broadcast media, publicity, advertising, business, banking and law appeal, but they are determined enough to excel in any career. Despite having a common-sense approach to health, they are often guilty of living on the edge or driving themselves too hard. Prone to stress and insomnia, calming and gentle exercise such as yoga is recommended rather than extreme or high-intensity workouts. Soothing chamomile or warm herbal tea before bedtime help them sleep better. For self-care, place your hand over your heart. Breathe deeply, feel your heart beating and hear what it is saying to you. Give your feelings as much consideration as your thoughts.

Personal life often takes second place to work, but this can be for fear of getting hurt. Behind the strong image lies a person who often feels misunderstood; these feelings are heightened if they haven’t found a direction in life to which to devote their considerable energies or a person who loves them for who they are rather than what they do. Those born on this day become more emotionally confident and more attuned to the importance of details in their mid- to late thirties and beyond. Once they understand it is not wealth or status they crave, but emotional connection and the ability to make positive change, they can leave their insecurities behind and find their true destiny, which is to introduce positive reform or new ways of doing or looking at things.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: Temperance, 5, 6, Saturday, Wednesday, black, green

Born today: Albert Schweitzer (philosopher); Cecil Beaton (photographer); Emily Watson (actor)

Potential: Principled, convincing

Dark side: Obsessive, insecure

15 JANUARY

The Birthday of the Protagonist

“I am a voice and a force for good”

The life lesson: is to learn to cope when there is no recognition or praise.

The way forward: is to do things because you believe in them rather than for show.

Luck maker: Share your success when you can and allow others to take the recognition.

People born on January 15 can be idealistic, instinctive and ambitious, with a strong desire to lead, innovate and inspire. They passionately want to live a meaningful life and make the world a better place. For them, everything happens for a reason and this spiritual perspective, combined with an uncanny sense of the motivations of others, gives them a talent for seeing life as an exciting ride, with possibilities for great highs and lows, and to learn and grow from both success and failure. They have dramatic flair and others often see them as invincible, with hero-like qualities. Their Achilles’ heel is their desire for recognition or credit, and occasional reluctance to share the limelight.

Born campaigners, those born on this day have great empathy for those who are disadvantaged and often find themselves speaking on behalf of others, fighting for human rights or raising awareness of a cause. Whatever career they choose, be it the law, social reform, the military, the police, art, theater, architecture, management, civil rights, healthcare, science or online influencer—they are likely to stand out as decisive innovators. Health-wise, they have a pleasure-seeking tendency that can lead to excess, so it is important for them to follow a healthy diet and exercise plan. Moderation in all things is key. They can also benefit from wearing, meditating on and surrounding themselves with shades of blue and green, to stay balanced. For self-care, make a point today of saying “thank you” or praising someone out loud for doing a good job.

These people have a passionate nature. Initially drawn to those who speak to their ego rather than their heart, they do possess a vulnerable side and start to live in an increasingly heart-centered way and to seek out people who speak to their hearts from their mid-thirties onward. This shift toward their inner life and greater sensitivity toward others is an extremely positive thing because, once they find a vocation they believe in and understand that in the drama of their lives other people have parts to play too, their destiny is to become an important and much-needed voice for the good of the people.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: The Devil, 6, 7, Saturday, Friday, black, blue

Born today: Molière (playwright); Martin Luther King (activist); Charo (actor)

Potential: Idealistic, inspirational

Dark side: Self-indulgent, obsessive

16 JANUARY

The Birthday of Satisfaction

“I get things done”

The life lesson: is to manage anxiety about what others think and what will happen to you in the future.

The way forward: is to focus on validation from within and what is good about your life right now.

Luck maker: Fake a smile when you don’t feel like smiling to trick your mind into positivity.

People born on January 16 are a delightful mix of empathy and intellectual insight, the mystical and the material, the creative and the logical. They have great organizational skills and it gives them enormous satisfaction to see a job well done. They prefer doing to talking and structure to uncertainty because they believe rules improve their chances of getting things done, but they can become restless if life gets too routine. Although satisfactory completion of tasks is their goal, it is important for them not to become overly negative about themselves or others when results are not as good as expected.

Born managers, these people make excellent organizers, consultants, managers, coaches, advisors, troubleshooters and accountants. Publishing, politics, social reform, charity work, police and the law appeal, as do the caring professions or dealing with people in sales, teaching and personal relations. Music and art offer outlets for emotional expression. For self-care, get up as early as you can at the same time each day, even on weekends, and make your bed mindfully. If you need more sleep, go to bed earlier.

Even though they are often highly valued and admired, those born on this day can become over-anxious about where their lives are heading or prone to the belief that they can never live up to their own or other people’s expectations. They need to understand that the satisfaction they crave comes not only from their achievements but also from within and from having fulfilling relationships. They prefer to show their love for others by doing things or helping out rather than articulating their feelings. Typically, around the age of 35, though often sooner, they reach a breakthrough point that emphasizes the importance of being more in touch with their emotions and the present moment, which serves them well for the rest of their lives. Once they are able to view mistakes not as failures but as opportunities to learn and grow, they have the potential for an extraordinary life. Their destiny is to communicate to others the importance of doing things the right way and seeing things through, leaving the world not just better organized but a happier place.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: The Tower, 7, 8, Saturday, Monday, brown, blue

Born today: Kate Moss (model); Thaddaeus Ropac (gallerist); FKA Twigs (musician)

Potential: Responsible, insightful

Dark side: Anxious, demanding

17 JANUARY

The Birthday of the Leader

“I lead and I inspire”

The life lesson: is knowing the difference between what can be changed and what cannot.

The way forward: is understanding that although some things can’t be changed, what can be changed is how you react – with a positive attitude and willingness to learn from every experience, you need never feel helpless again.

Luck maker: Success attracts success. Mix with upbeat and positive people and release toxic people from your life.

January 17-born love to take the lead, not necessarily because they are egotistical but because, having assessed the situation, it is clear to them that they really are the best person for the job. Despite being respectful of tradition, they can also hold progressive ideas about social reform. They like to help others. A defining characteristic is their tough-minded, self-controlled (sometimes irritable) approach and their belief that the only person upon whom they can really rely is themselves. They know the meaning of the word “struggle,” and are a model of inspirational self-made success.

Born disciplinarians, these people are drawn to careers where self-control matters, such as in sport or the military, the law, the police or the clergy. They are superb at managing and inspiring teams, so careers in the civil service, government, banking, teaching and business may appeal. They also have an interest in fashion, hospitality and catering, as well as teaching, writing and humanitarian work. People with this birthday have a tendency to repress their emotions, so they need to find activities such as competitive sport or other forms of vigorous exercise, which can act as an emotional release. For self-care, make a point in conversation to ask other people as many questions as you can. You don’t have to agree. Simply learn a new perspective and add it to your store of knowledge.

These direct and driven people take the lead in both their working life and relationships. They are loving and generous, but can become controlling of those closest to them and need to give their loved ones freedom as well as intimacy. Fortunately, in their early thirties, there is a shift toward allowing both themselves and others greater freedom, with another powerful shift happening in their early sixties. Once they have learned to get others on their side through cooperation rather than control, and to truly believe there is always a better way, their destiny is to lead by their powerful example and help others to work harmoniously toward the greater good.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, day, colors: The Star, 8, 9, Saturday, brown, green

Born today: Michelle Obama (US First Lady); Benjamin Franklin (US President); Muhammad Ali (boxer); Jim Carrey (comedian)

Potential: Purposeful, committed

Dark side: Intolerant, domineering

18 JANUARY

The Birthday of Fantasy

“I can show you the world”

The life lesson: is learning to concentrate.

The way forward: is not to stop daydreaming—this is the secret to your creativity—but when your mind wanders to gently bring your thoughts back to the present moment.

Luck maker: Finish what you start, even if that means doing things you find boring.

The creative powers of people born on January 18 can lead them to pure visionary heights. They have a quick wit and boundless energy that often delights others and are often surrounded by admirers. Optimistic, the only things that can bring down these endearing child-like souls are rules. They place a high value on independence and need to find an environment in which their need for freedom and play (fun) is respected because, if they don’t, this will lead them to bitterness. They can become bored quickly, losing their concentration and retreating into a world of fantasy or fits of temper if their needs aren’t being met, or becoming restless and impatient if they feel too confined.

Born creators, if a career interests them enough, they are likely to excel. Once they learn to combine their creativity with practical application, the fields of advertising, fashion, business, banking, property development and online influencing may appeal. Their idealism draws them to teaching, medicine, science, technology and charity work, and their sense of playful expression to art, film, literature, the media and entertainment. Because they live so much in their heads, they need to make sure they pay attention to their physical wellbeing and avoid mood-altering substances. For self-care, when you eat your evening meal, switch off your phone and any distractions. Focus your attention only on the food. Put your life and fork down between bites. Savor the moment.

These people throw themselves deeply into relationships and can be hurt easily if their partner does not respond the same. They often fear they will not find a soul mate who will love them with the intensity they offer and crave, but more often than not they do. They become more emotionally balanced and mature in their thirties, and this empowering trend continues building momentum as they age. Asking them to be more realistic about love and life simply isn’t an option or worth forcing on them, as imagination is who they are. Their destiny is to inspire others with their flights of fantasy and encourage them to take a more courageous and imaginative perspective.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: The moon, 1, 9, Saturday, Tuesday, red, brown

Born today: Peter Mark Roget (lexicographer); Daniel Hale Williams (surgeon); A. A. Milne (author)

Potential: Visionary, stimulating

Dark side: Impractical, undisciplined

19 JANUARY

The Birthday of Originality

“I see the world in a grain of sand”

The life lesson: is coping with routine and boring details.

The way forward: is to understand that the devil (and the potential for success) is often in the detail.

Luck maker: Find out what you love to do and what you are good at. Then think about how you can use your passion and talents to help others.

January 19-born are often honest and direct, with a genuine appreciation of beauty. There is an endearing, sometimes child-like, energy and wonder about them; they are blessed with genuine originality. Independent and free-spirited, they really don’t care too much what people think and don’t take well to rules and being told what to do, so they often rebel with immature behavior. Even if they appear respectable, they soon show what truly unique individuals they are, as anyone who gets to know them soon appreciates. Destined to shine brightly and to attract others to them like magnets, they become unhappy if they try to repress their originality.

Born movers and shakers, they tend to do better in solitary positions but can work well in groups that allow them to freely use their imagination. The fields of literature, art, engineering and science appeal, and they may be drawn to sports or other physical types of work, as well as careers as experts, advisors and consultants. They can be engaging online experts and video or social media influencers. Bursting with energy, they need to pace themselves; otherwise they risk depression or burning out, so positive thinking and practicing meditation and yoga is strongly advised. For self-care, think like a solo mountain climber. Don’t underestimate the value of the small and steady steps you need to take to succeed. At the end of each day ask yourself if you gave everything you did that day your very best.

Prone to extremes, these people make intense lovers and need a partner who can keep them balanced and give them the occasional reality check. They are intuitive and can often sense what others miss, but it isn’t until their early thirties that the emphasis moves toward nurturing their inner life, and herein lies the secret of their success as they age. Once they learn to listen to rather than repress their intuition, and pay attention to the small as well as the big things, their destiny is to inspire others with their highly original ideas and make an unforgettable and often exceptional impact on the world.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: The Sun, 1, 2, Saturday, Sunday, brown, orange

Born today: James Watt (engineer); Edgar Allan Poe (author); Janis Joplin (singer)

Potential: Visionary, independent

Dark side: Immature, unfocused

AQUARIUS
THE WATER CARRIER
(JANUARY 20–FEBRUARY 18)

 Element: Air

 Ruling planets: Saturn, the teacher, and Uranus, the visionary

 Tarot card: The Star (hope)

 Lucky numbers: 4, 8, 11

 Favorable colors: Calming and expansive sky blue; yellow, white and lilac

 Driving force: Innovation

 Personal statement: I confidently express my original ideas

 Chinese astrology counterpart: The Tiger

Although they are known for their visionary, frequently rebellious, “off-the-wall” approach to life, Aquarians are often friendly and compassionate. They often have a deep desire to help others and make the world a better place. They are independent and find it very tough to conform to other people’s expectations. But even though they love to be totally original and do things their way, their curious minds can be swayed by logical argument.

Personality potential

Aquarians have revolutionary instincts. They often feel that their role is to push for improvements and progressive change. Their instincts are humanitarian and idealistic, and nothing makes them feel more fulfilled than using their insight, intelligence and skills to help and inspire others. It’s not surprising that many people born under this sign are drawn to human rights, environmentalism, politics, people management, technology and others areas where they can help create positive and innovative change for others or for the planet. Their inventive and original thinking and approach to life can often earn them a reputation for being eccentric—a reputation they take great pride in.

The Aquarian instinct is to not respect rules and regulations imposed on them by others unless those rules and regulations make sense to them. They are a law unto themselves at times, but they rarely use their inventive ideas in a destructive manner. In the great majority of cases, the secret to their happiness is to find ways to use their intuition and insight to bring benefit, not just to themselves or a close group of people, but to everyone. Aquarians can’t think small. They see the bigger picture.

This sign is ruled by Saturn, the planet of self-discipline, and Uranus, the planet of originality, idealism, unpredictability and endless change. This goes some way to explaining why Aquarians don’t just cope well with change, they thrive on it. They adore finding out about new things and doing things in different ways to what has been done before. You will rarely find an Aquarian who is content living in their comfort zone. These people need to constantly push boundaries in some way to feel truly alive.

Aquarians are often very sociable, tolerant and friendly people with the ability to adapt easily to any person or situation. However, despite having an engaging personality, their intellectual approach means they can find it difficult to allow others to get close to them. They have an enviable ability to detach themselves emotionally from others and from situations. This ability to step outside and observe without attachment means they can offer much-valued objective insight. Even though there is always going to be an element of untouchable aloofness and a dreamy quality about them, they are capable of giving a lot of themselves to those they care about and will go out of their way to offer help and support to loved ones and friends when needed.

Above all, these pioneers are way ahead of their time. They are the people of the future. If inspired, they are capable of flashes of intuition and insight that can be breathtaking in their scope and originality. Blessed with an innate ability to see the upside or the positives rather than the negatives, they are an uplifting breath of fresh air with their refreshing and quirky approach to life, even when things are not going their way.

“Aquarians don’t just cope well with change, they thrive on it…”

Personality pitfalls

Depending on which planetary ruler—Saturn the teacher or Uranus the visionary—is stronger at the time of their birth, Aquarians can be unpredictable or downright quirky. When Saturn dominates, they may be prone to serious bouts of stubbornness and impatience; when Uranus dominates, they are likely to have disruptive and rebellious tendencies. They can also possess a streak of perfectionism that can be soul-destroying to both themselves and to others. Fanaticism and bigotry can sometimes find expression in their belief that only they know how to make the world a better place. With a love of change they can rebel simply for the sake of rebelling or follow a set of beliefs blindly without pausing to consider that there could be other approaches.

The objectivity and detachment of people born under this sign may sometimes come across as cold-heartedness. They are idealistic but not always warm-hearted; revolutionary but not always considerate; altruistic but not always sensitive. Indeed, they can be downright tactless and perverse on occasion. They are also prone to so overinvesting in a cause or a set of beliefs that they have little of themselves left over for their family and friends. And sometimes, when the burden of responsibility or expectation is put on Aquarians, it can be in their nature to do exactly the opposite of what is needed or requested, for the simple reason that they like to be perverse. And although they often have large numbers of friends, many of these are in fact merely acquaintances. Aquarians often need to exercise more discretion in their relationships. Fulfilling relationships require both parties to open up and share their feelings—something Aquarians can struggle with, and the reason they tend to have more acquaintances than true friends in their lives.

Darkest secrets

Many Aquarians present a distinct, sometimes eccentric image to the world, but deep down many suffer from imposter syndrome, unsure of who they really are. This uncertainty can drive them to nonconformist behavior in the misguided belief that rebellion will give them the identity and sense of purpose and self-belief they crave.

Symbol

The symbol for Aquarius is the water carrier. Water represents feelings and Aquarians are noted for their ability to offer compassion, but those feelings are carried, which represents the ability of Aquarians to detach themselves if need be. This symbol is also thought to represent the union of feelings and intuition with reason and logic to serve the greater good.

Love

Charismatic, interesting and cheerful, Aquarians rarely lack admirers. They love socializing on their terms and pride themselves on being able to get along with just about anybody. They need a partner who can share their spirit of adventure and zest for life, because someone who is too timid or small-minded will frustrate them.

When it comes to close, intimate relationships Aquarians may struggle because their perfectionist nature finds the inevitable complications that love and emotion can bring difficult to process. With their powerful desire for independence, they may find it the hardest of all the signs to settle into and commit to a relationship in the conventional sense. Allowing another person into their lives is interpreted as an invasion of their freedom—both physically and psychologically—and they may prefer to stay single rather than change or accommodate someone else. The danger here is they can become so set in their ways that it is impossible for them to share, and they end up lonely. Having said this, Aquarians love the excitement and passion of romance, and when they find a quick-witted individual who can match their sense of adventure but who also gives them plenty of space to breathe, they make loyal and loving companions.

Love matches: Gemini, Leo Sagittarius, Libra

The Aquarian woman

Don’t even try to understand an Aquarian woman. She is a beautiful mystery. She is loving but detached. She is friendly but a loner. She is gentle but tough. She is faithful but freedom-loving. She is logical but magical. The only thing predictable about her is her fierce unpredictability.

Conversations with Aquarian women will rarely be dull. She has the charming ability to make anyone feel special. She is genuinely fascinated by and eager to learn about others, and rarely imposes her own opinions on them. It’s no surprise that this enchanting creature is often surrounded by admirers, but, when it comes to commitment, she may hesitate and take a few steps back. Emotional closeness can make her feel trapped. It can take an age for a friendship or a casual relationship to move from the superficial to something deep and meaningful.

Aquarian women are many things, but above all they are free spirits. They love their independence. They are averse to friends or potential partners who are jealous and possessive. They also don’t take well to criticism or to people who are conventional in their approach to relationships. They are drawn to the eccentric because they are eccentric themselves. It is of the utmost importance that they have plenty of personal space and freedom in all their relationships. Separate bedrooms may be a relationship saver. However, once they do eventually find someone who is their love match, they can be loyal and tolerant partners. Their unpredictable personality ensures that a love affair with an Aquarian woman always feels like a love affair. It will be many things but it will never be dull.

The Aquarian man

Expect the unexpected from the Aquarian man. He is unconventional and rarely behaves the way other people expect. It can take a long time for him to reveal his true feelings. He will typically be popular and surrounded by friends—everybody is his “friend,” even his enemies—but there will be few, if any, people who are really close to him. If he says he does not like someone, the chances are that, in fact, he actually does. Sound confusing? Welcome to the world of Aquarius!

An Aquarian man prefers to keep his real motives, feelings and intentions well hidden. Not because he necessarily has anything to hide, but because he genuinely loves surprising or waking other people up. He also enjoys studying other people and, like a detective, discovering what motivates them. If he can’t figure someone out, he will become dedicated to unlocking their mystery. People who are easy to work out or who wear their hearts on their sleeves don’t attract him as much as those who are complex and mysterious.

When he does eventually meet someone who interests him enough to make him want to take the relationship to the next stage, the Aquarian male may initially struggle. He is not against marriage or fearful of long-term commitment, but it is not in his nature to share his heart and his life with another person as spontaneously as some other signs. He may even come up with logical reasons to delay or to wait and may therefore marry or commit later in life. This hesitancy is a shame because when the Aquarian man does finally find the courage to take a leap of faith with his heart and share his life with someone else, he can really thrive. He is able to open up and relax and will bring much excitement and joy to a relationship.