How to diversify sex to spouses. How to diversify an intimate marital life in bed

© Veronica Larsson, 2018

ISBN 978-5-4490-2551-7

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Psychologists talk about the crisis after 7 years of marriage, sexologists – about a break in relations after the first year, then – in the third or fourth year, when the novelty and freshness of erotic sensations leave, and the partner loses her former sexual attraction.

However, the situation can be remedied, because two loving people are quite able to return the former passion in the relationship, introducing a new stream in them…

How to diversify sex in marriage?

Do you remember the anecdote about the reaction of the spouse coming from work on the doorstep of the house? My wife went to a sex shop, bought a sado-maso leather suit there, a mask on her face and fully armed met her soul mate.

The husband with interest looked at the faithful, appreciating the efforts, and asked:

«Well, what do we have for dinner, Batman?»

It’s a shame, of course, because the wife so wanted to make a difference in their sex life. Very often the reason for cooling in a marriage is a banal way of life, which jams so that at night the couple are no longer up to romance and sex, just to get some sleep. Someone is trying to arrange a weekend of flirting, when the children leave for the grandparent’s weekend, someone warms up themselves and the second half by viewing pornography. Everyone tries to fight to the best of their ability and imagination with a routine that can not be avoided in long family relationships.

Psychologists talk about the crisis after 7 years of marriage, sexologists – about a break in relations after the first year, then – in the third or fourth year, when the novelty and freshness of erotic sensations leave, and the partner loses her former sexual attraction. And then on TV from morning to night, they compulsively broadcast, just instill the thought that the average man is simply obliged from morning to evening to cook in the topic of sex. Against the background of these brutal machos with bare torsos, any man gets a heap of doubts about his abilities and, as a consequence, a decrease in potency.

Ophotoscopic models inspire women with fear of the thought of cellulite, which must be hidden in the dark under the blanket from their second half. Fears and monotony in sex lead to the fact that after ten years of marriage, only 42% of couples lead a regular sex life.

However, the situation can be corrected, because the two loving people are quite able to restore the former passion in the relationship, introducing a new stream in them. Let’s start with a change in the view of the ordinary: with changes in the habitual habitat – bedroom and house, we finish – with space and elements.

Things that kill the desire for sex

A common place will be advised to change the color and quality of the linen of the matrimonial bed, to repair or rearrange the furniture in the bedroom. Not bad, of course, it would be to change the bed on the bed with the canopy style of the era of Madame de Pompadour, but we will see things realistically: each time such refreshment of the relationship will hurt painfully on the wallet. For role-playing games, about them later, there are less expensive options entourage.

Therefore, a simple, but to the banality obvious advice will be to remove from the room where you sleep, TV. News and talk shows contribute to the excitation of the nervous system, and not the erection of the penis. Viewing endless series and soap operas with the problems of the main character in your personal life gradually absorbs so much that you stop thinking about your life, including sexual life.

Baby cot, as it is convenient, but still after a certain age should not be in the parent’s bedroom. Do not you have enough endless stresses of daylight, you want extreme and jumping naked in the middle of the night under the puzzled look of the baby?

Expand the scope of activities, the apartment is still a lot of interesting places for sex! Bathroom with shower is one of them. Clumsy? Consider this a workout before having sex in the cockpit of the airplane toilet. It’s hard to learn, it’s easy to fight: after all, during the flight, you may have to fight back from vigilant stewardesses or night-sick incontinence of boring passengers.