When a woman puts the dream of “getting married” above everything else, she forgets that our life is limited. We have active years when our hormones are working, our energy is high. And to spend those years servicing everyday life, or in relationships where you are simply losing time — that’s one of the worst things you can do. The only thing worse is killing time with TV series and meaningless short videos in search of quick dopamine, creating nothing. Don’t fall into fear. Work through it. Life should play in a full spectrum. Don’t be afraid of other women — find your own people: psychologically healthy women you can be friends with, travel with, build a circle with. For that, you don’t have to center your life around men.

And then, at the moment when you don’t actually need a man to “fill” the areas of your life — when you already have money, friends, work, travel — that’s often when he appears. God gives you a partner when he will not become your only meaning or your escape from …